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exsequar ([personal profile] exsequar) wrote2005-09-08 05:32 pm
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Well that was the scariest thing I've gone through in a while.

My sister's friend IMs me and says something like "did you hear what happened to your dad? meredith [my sister] wanted me to tell you... he fell and broke his pinky and fractured his leg" and I was like HOLY SHIT, WHAT. So my first reaction was like why the fuck didn't anyone tell me? I started crying already, because my dad... I love my dad so much, and the thought of anything happening to him is literally terrifying. I have nightmares about losing him. So I got my cell and call my dad's house, my mom's house, and my mom's cell, and get no answer. So I try calling my old school, where my dad works - the machine says they're available until 5:00 PM. It was 5:03. Shit. So I look up the number to the hospital I think he might be at, call that - no answer. What the fuck kind of hospital doesn't answer the phone? So I call my dad's best friend's cell. No answer. Now I'm getting desperate and I look through all the numbers on my cell and I'm like, oh look, I have a teacher's cell number, let's try that... so I call him and he actually answered (miracle of miracles). He hadn't heard about it but his wife had because she works in the lower school with my dad, so she told me that he had actually torn a tendon, not broken his leg. Still scary, but a little better. He was very nice and it was good to talk to him, it was nice and calming - he suggested I call the hospital again, and try the upper school number because he knew some people were still there. After I talked to him I tried those but they didn't work again, so I tried my Mom's cell one more time and THANK GOD she answered. She was driving my dad home so she gave the phone to him and I talked to him for a while. For a few minutes I was crying so hard I couldn't speak, and he was telling me to calm down. Eventually I did, and I talked to him for a little while - he said that it's easily fixable, he'll have surgery on Monday and be out of school for about a week, maybe a little more. He'll be fine after rehab. So that was good to hear. Apparently my sister is also having a breakdown, poor thing, she's not good at highly emotional things, she tends to kind of explode. I really wish I was there to be with my dad...

Seriously, when Tavia (sister's friend) IMed me and said "did you hear what happened to your dad?" a million nightmare scenarios went through my head. Since she's 10 years old, it took her like a year to type the rest of it and I was absolutely freaking out, just thinking the worst. Ugh.

I never want to go through that again.

[identity profile] teaspoon.livejournal.com 2005-09-08 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
meep, i really hope he'll be okay.

[identity profile] exhaledeeply.livejournal.com 2005-09-08 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I wish I felt that way about my dad.

[identity profile] little-lusty.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
*sends hugs* Babe I have been in situations like that! There is nothing worse than to have your gut twisted up and feel helpless all at once! I am so glad he is ok! I will keep him in my thoughts and hope he gets well soon! Chin up young person.....you are stronger than you think! Hugs, Brit

[identity profile] ringwench.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Oh that sucks! *hugs*

Hope your dad is OK!

That IM must have been really scary! That's always the worst. Right at that moment when you find out that SOMETHING has happened but before you find out exactly WHAT happened!

I've been in situations like that before, not fun AT ALL!

I'm glad it didn't turn out to be anything more serious (not that it's all flowers and bunny rabbits or anything, but you know what I mean).

*hugs again*

[identity profile] spacequeen.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* :/

[identity profile] culuyetille.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
oh dear I'm so sorry to hear about that!!!! *huggles you tightly* It's good to know nothing terribly serious has happened to your dad. I can totally relate, I'm very attached to my father as well and, well *hugs you more and makes you cookies*

Hayden: *steals cookies*

...*eyeroll* *hugs again*

[identity profile] cheapcrowd.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm glad your dad is going to be ok. :)

[identity profile] thymespace.livejournal.com 2005-09-09 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sorry that you dad was hurt. I know how scary that can be. I can't imagine waiting while someone typed up what was going on. I am glad that he is going to be okay. I hope that you are recovering from the shock alright.

[identity profile] the5thmarauder.livejournal.com 2005-09-10 10:54 am (UTC)(link)
*glomps* I'm SO sorry I suck at being a friend:P I can't believe i've only just read this *squishlovekiss* Are you alright now? Shake ups like that are horrible. I haven't been online like... all week:P I've hurt my back! Go me! And yesterday my car was in an accident *sighs* Still, ill try and be on MSN and cheer you up :D I saw your other entries too. I'll comment on them, I promise. I'll probably next week but I will *grins* Congrats on the new buddy. SEE?! I told you to convert everyone - now you dond't even NEED to; you just attract them :D

S2US *LOFFMWAH*

[identity profile] exsequar.livejournal.com 2005-09-10 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Awwww, lover, you do NOT suck at being a friend at all!! *huggles you* Sounds like you've had a really rough time of it yourself, I'm so sorry :( I'm fine now, I've talked to my dad and he's doing fine so I'm calm now. I really hope I get to talk to you, but it might not happen since I'm going to some kind of fair downtown this afternoon and I have no idea how long that will take. *huggles* You are the bestest friend ever, no saying you aren't! *waggles finger*

*GLOMPKISS*